100 Questions to Ask Before You Get Serious Dating Journal By Timi Nadela

Dating can be exciting, but it can also be confusing. When you meet someone new, it’s easy to get caught up in the fun, emotions, and hopes for the future. But before you get too serious in a relationship, it’s important to ask the right questions. That’s why I created “100 Questions to Ask Before You Get Serious Dating Journal.” This journal is made to help you think clearly, reflect deeply, and make wise choices when it comes to love.

This journal is not just for people who are dating now, but also for those who are thinking about starting a relationship. Whether you are in your 20s or older, dating again after heartbreak, or just praying for the right person, this journal will help guide you through the process with purpose.

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Why This Journal Was Created

I created this journal because I know how easy it is to fall for someone without really knowing them. Many people jump into serious relationships too soon, only to find out later that they don’t share the same values, goals, or beliefs. That can lead to pain and heartbreak.

This journal was designed to slow things down, to help you think before giving your heart completely. It is filled with 100 thoughtful, faith-based, and practical questions that can help you see the person more clearly and discover whether your values and goals match. It’s not about judging the other person—it’s about protecting your heart and honoring God with your relationships.

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What You’ll Find Inside

Inside this journal, you will find:

• 100 Carefully Crafted Questions – These are not just yes or no questions. They are questions that help you think, reflect, and dig deeper.

• Space to Write – There is room after each question for you to write your thoughts, observations, and prayer reflections.

• Guided Prompts – Alongside the questions, you’ll find guided prompts that encourage you to think with clarity and honesty.

• Faith-Based Reflections – Some pages include Bible verses or faith reflections to help you pray and seek God’s guidance.

• Simple, Elegant Layout – The clean layout allows you to focus on your heart, your thoughts, and your relationship goals.

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The 10 Key Areas Covered

The 100 questions are divided into 10 sections that cover different areas of life and relationships. These include:

1. Faith and Spiritual Life

   • Does this person have a personal relationship with God?

   • How important is faith in their daily life?

   • Do we pray together or talk about God freely?

2. Family and Upbringing

   • What was their relationship like with their parents?

   • How were they raised and how does that affect how they view family today?

   • Are they open to starting a family or do they have a different view?

3. Finances and Career

   • Do they have a job or career they enjoy?

   • Are they wise with money or do they struggle with debt?

   • How do they see money and giving?

4. Character and Values

   • Are they honest, kind, and trustworthy?

   • How do they respond to pressure, stress, or failure?

   • Do they say what they mean and mean what they say?

5. Communication and Conflict

   • How do they handle conflict or disagreements?

   • Do they listen well or interrupt?

   • Are they willing to apologize and forgive?

6. Friendships and Social Life

   • Who are their closest friends?

   • Are their friendships healthy or toxic?

   • How do they spend their free time?

7. Goals and Dreams

   • What do they want in the next 5 or 10 years?

   • Are their goals realistic?

   • Do their dreams match yours?

8. Love and Affection

   • How do they show love?

   • What is their love language?

   • Are they respectful of your boundaries?

9. Past Relationships

   • Have they healed from past hurts?

   • Do they speak kindly or bitterly about exes?

   • What did they learn from their past?

10. Marriage and Future Vision

• Do they believe in marriage?

• What kind of marriage do they want?

• Are they committed to growing together?

Each of these sections helps you look beyond surface-level attraction and dig into what truly matters. This isn’t just about falling in love. It’s about building something that lasts.

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Why These Questions Matter

Many people get married thinking love is enough. While love is important, it is not the only thing that makes a relationship work. Trust, communication, shared values, and faith are all needed to build a lasting bond.

This journal helps you slow down and be wise. The Bible says in Proverbs 4:23, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” These questions are one way you can guard your heart—by asking them before your emotions take over.

Sometimes, just one honest answer can help you see clearly whether this relationship is moving in the right direction. Other times, asking questions helps you talk about things you might not have brought up otherwise.

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How to Use This Journal

There’s no wrong way to use this journal, but here are a few suggestions:

• Pray First – Before you begin writing or asking questions, pray for wisdom and clarity.

• Take Your Time – You don’t have to ask all 100 questions at once. Go slow, take notes, and observe.

• Be Honest – When you write, be completely honest with yourself. No one else has to read it.

• Talk About It – Use the journal as a conversation starter. Ask your dating partner these questions over time.

• Reflect Often – Go back and re-read your answers. Patterns will start to appear, and clarity will come.

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A Tool for Discernment

This journal isn’t about making a perfect checklist. It’s about learning, growing, and listening to God. Each question gives you a chance to learn more about your partner—and yourself. It can help you spot red flags or confirm the green lights.

Discernment is key when it comes to dating. God wants His children to walk in wisdom, not confusion. The right relationship brings peace, not pressure.

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Final Thoughts

If you’re ready to date with purpose, this journal is for you. Whether you're just starting to talk to someone or you’re already in a relationship and wondering if you should take the next step, the “100 Questions to Ask Before You Get Serious Dating Journal” can help you go deeper.

Remember, love is a choice. And choosing the right person is one of the biggest decisions you will ever make. Don’t rush. Ask questions. Listen to God. Use this journal to keep your heart aligned with truth and your path clear.

Let God write your love story—with wisdom, joy, and peace. It's available in my Amazon Store.