Come Back to Who God Created You to Be, Woman of God

I want to speak from the heart. This is for all the women out there who are not walking with God. Maybe you think you’re strong, independent, and have everything together. Maybe you think you don’t need God. But let me tell you something: when we try to do life without God, we always end up empty.

I’ve seen so many women today acting like men. They’re loud, aggressive, fighting in public, competing with each other, filled with jealousy, and dressing in ways that do not honor God or themselves. It breaks my heart.

You Were Not Made to Be a Man

God did not create you to be a man. He created you to be a woman, full of beauty, grace, and purpose. There is power in being a woman, not the kind the world tells you to chase, but the kind that comes from God.

"God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them." — Genesis 1:27 (NIV)

You are not less than a man. You are different. You were created for a divine purpose. When you try to act like a man or compete with men, you are stepping out of the role God lovingly made for you.

Stop the Fighting

Why are women fighting in public like they have no control? It’s embarrassing. It’s not what God wants from us. We are to be gentle, kind, and peaceful.

"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." — Proverbs 15:1 (NIV)

Fighting, screaming, cussing, and tearing each other down only shows how broken we are inside. Instead of lifting each other up, we’re dragging each other down.

Modesty Matters

Let’s talk about how we dress. I have never seen so much skin in public places. Some women dress like they just rolled out of bed or like they’re going to a club. It’s not about shame. It’s about respect. Respect for yourself, respect for God, and respect for others.

"I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God." — 1 Timothy 2:9-10 (NIV)

When you dress, ask yourself: "Am I honoring God with this outfit? Or am I trying to get attention from men?"

Let’s Talk About Wedding Dresses and Plastic Surgery

Have you seen wedding dresses lately? They barely cover anything. It used to be a symbol of purity and commitment. Now, it’s about showing as much skin as possible and attracting everyone’s eyes.

And don’t get me started on plastic surgery. Women say, "I’m doing it for myself." But let’s be honest. Most of the time, it’s because you don’t feel beautiful the way God made you. You think changing your body will make you feel better. But that’s not true beauty. That’s insecurity wearing a mask.

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." — Proverbs 31:30 (NIV)

Your worth is not in how you look, how sexy you are, or how many likes you get online. Your worth is in being a daughter of the Most High God.

You Are Not What the World Says You Are

The world tells you that to be valuable, you need to be sexy, successful, independent, and loud. But God says your value comes from Him. You are His masterpiece.

"For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago." — Ephesians 2:10 (NLT)

You are not here by accident. You were created on purpose, with a purpose. That purpose is not to chase the world. It is to walk with God and honor Him in everything you do.

Come Back to the Heart of God

If you feel lost, confused, or like you’re not enough, I want you to know this: God is calling you back. He wants to heal your heart. He wants to give you peace, purpose, and joy.

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." — Matthew 11:28 (NIV)

It’s not too late to turn around. You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to say, "God, I need You."

Be the Woman God Created You to Be

Be a woman of faith. Be a woman of character. Be a woman who loves deeply, speaks kindly, and walks humbly with God.

"She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue." — Proverbs 31:25-26 (NIV)

That’s real beauty. That’s real strength. That’s the kind of woman this world needs.

Final Words

Sister, stop chasing attention. Stop pretending you’re okay when you’re not. Stop trying to be someone you’re not.

Take off the mask. Put down the fake confidence. Let God heal you. Let Him remind you who you are.

You are not forgotten. You are not a mistake. You are not just a body.

You are a child of God.

Come back home.

God is waiting.

Scriptures to Reflect On:

• Psalm 139:14 — "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made."

• Romans 12:2 — "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind."

• Isaiah 43:1 — "Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine."

You are loved. You are chosen. And it’s time to live like it.

Amen.