Timi Nadela

Recently, I was talking to some of my friends and neighbors about their jobs. Many of them shared that they are losing their jobs during this holiday season. Hearing their stories made me feel so sad. The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy and thanksgiving, but for some people, it has become a time of worry and fear.

If you are reading this and you have lost your job, I want to remind you that you are not alone. I have been in your shoes. Losing a job is not funny—it is painful and stressful. You start to think about how you will pay your house payment, your bills, your car loan, and other expenses. These worries can feel so heavy that it’s hard to see the light ahead.

The first thing you need to do after losing a job is to decompress. Take a deep breath and give yourself permission to rest. Losing a job is a form of loss, and it’s okay to mourn. Allow yourself to feel sad, disappointed, or even angry. Don’t rush through the emotions. Remember, healing takes time. God gave us emotions for a reason, but He also gave us the ability to rise again after we fall.

After you’ve taken some time to breathe, the next thing you should do is turn to God first. Don’t rush to ask for advice from everyone around you. Sometimes people mean well, but they can confuse you even more. The Bible clearly teaches us to seek God before anyone else. In James 1:5, it says, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.”

God knows what you’re going through. He understands your financial needs, your responsibilities, and your pain. Before you talk to your friends or make any quick decisions, pray and ask God for wisdom. He may not answer right away, but He will give you peace and guide you toward the right path.

When I lost my job years ago, I remember feeling hopeless. But that season taught me to trust God more. It reminded me that jobs may come and go, but God’s provision never ends. Sometimes He allows a door to close because He’s preparing a better one to open.

If you’re struggling with money right now and can’t keep up with bills, one practical option to consider is debt settlement. It can help you manage your debt and reduce the amount you owe, giving you some relief while you get back on your feet. It’s not an easy choice, but it can help ease your stress and give you time to recover.

Always remember: God is your provider, not your job. He is faithful and will not abandon you in your time of need. Trust Him, rest in His promises, and let Him lead you to new beginnings.

Philippians 4:19 says, “And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.”
Hold on to this truth and believe that God is still in control—even when life feels uncertain.